And that is what the field does not do.. help people interact socially. So here is a little story. Before becoming dreamweaver’s partner, I was just like all of you. Seeking to improve my life with his fields. I did not have a fulfilling love life and I purchased a glamour (attraction) field he used to sell. I also was not seeing results… which I found weird because I was able to feel one of his other fields obviously working for me that had led to some very out of this world experiences (ascension field). I wondered what the problem was.. and as time went on and I continued to grow, I realized that ‘I’ was the problem. There were many times where women were giving me signs and I was not noticing any of them because I was one to avoid social interaction. Even when I was talking to females, my lack of confidence would convince me that she was not attracted to me and so I would not pursue the women further. I wouldn’t flirt or give them any signs that I was attracted to them… Now here’s the thing with females… 99% of them will not hit on you first! They will wait for you to make the first move.

And as I grew and became more confident over time, I began to notice the women’s signs of attraction a lot more obviously and I would also feel a lot more of an attractive vibe when speaking to them… which would lead to me flirting and them flirting back instantly. Now why is that? Confidence.

If you subconsciously believe you are not worthy or good enough for these girls, then that is what you will see in the world. Your mind will look for reasons to make you continue to believe what you have believed for so long. Even if its not true! These women could be very attracted to you and make very obvious signs that they are but your mind will not show you that. It will convince you that you are not attractive to them because you do not believe you are an attractive person. The subconscious mind does not like contradictions.

When I became more confident, women being attracted to me correlated well with the way I felt about myself, so my mind would show me women being attracted to me all the time.. Mind correlates with reality.

Also, having confidence also allowed me to interact with others more effectively because I was no longer focused on sounding ‘right’ in the conversation and was more focused on the person I was talking to. It becomes much easier to connect with others in this way. Whether you are attractive or not does not matter, if you are not able to engage yourself in good conversation, you will never get anywhere. Back then, my conversations would never go anywhere because I was just not interested in what the person had to say, was too concerned with what I wanted to say or didn’t know what to say at all! But, becoming empathetic to the person’s reaction’s/feelings and being enthusiastic about what they had to say make conversations flow very naturally. (we will be releasing a field on social mastery that covers this very soon)

There is so much more to confidence and social dynamics but all of this becomes possible through bettering yourself. An excellent start to that is through gaining confidence which can be done by exercising, mastering a skill or art, dress nicely (so important), even listening to our confidence field from sapienmed (confidence and subconscious limits work lovely together), ext…

I am very sure the matchmaker field is working for you guys but either you guys aren’t noticing or you just might not be physically attracted to the person it attracts to you. It attracts someone who reflects you. Do you love yourself? Do you like who you are? You find yourself attractive? Maybe you’ve interacted with the person the field matched you with already but you were just not physically attracted to her and did not think anything of it.. No worries though, it will keep finding people who match your vibe. But you still need to socialize for things to happen so please.. don’t be afraid to make a move. You need be open to whoever you talk to… A physically unattractive woman who has great chemistry with you will make you so much happier than a woman you’re physically attracted to but have little in common with. And if you want more physically attractive women… then learn to value yourself more and feel physically attractive. Gain confidence and value yourself. Then you’ll attract a woman who values herself and is very physically attractive as well.